Review: ‘Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence,’ starring Eric Clarke, Jessi Hildebrandt, Natasha Helfer, John Dehlin and Shelby Lofton,

January 3, 2026

by Carla Hay

Ruby Franke and Jodi Hildebrandt in “Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” (Photo courtesy of Investigation Discovery)

“Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence”

Directed by Olivia Crist Grant

Culture Representation: The four-episode docuseries “Ruby and Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” features an all-white group of people talking about the child-abuse scandal involving former YouTube family influencer Ruby Franke and her business partner Jodi Hildebrant, who are both from Utah.

Culture Clash: In December 2023, Franke and Hildebrandt were both convicted of felony child abuse for beating, torturing, starving, and holding captive Franke’s two youngest children earlier that year.

Culture Audience: “Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” will appeal primarily to people who are interested in watching true crime documentaries about child abusers who are punished for their crimes and how cult-like leaders can cause damage.

Jessi Hildebrandt in “Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” (Photo courtesy of Investigation Discovery)

Just like the title indicates, “Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” takes the angle that a cult mentality was the driving force behind the horrific child abuse inflicted by Ruby Franke and Jodi Hildebrandt, who were each sentenced to four to 30 years in prison for this child abuse. This four-episode docuseries is stretched too long with repetitive comments, but it’s a solid account of how abusers can twist religion for evil purposes. Most of the documentary’s interviews are with former clients of Hildebrandt and other people whose lives have been affected by her.

Directed by Olivia Crist Grant, “Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” is the type of documentary series that should have been much shorter than it is. The same story could’ve been told in three episodes instead of four, by reducing the redundant content. Episode 1, titled “Meet the Frankes,” gives a summary of the troubled Franke family. Episode 2, titled “The Hildebrandt Way,” describes the beginnings of Hildebrandt’s therapist business. Chapter 3, titled “Truth and Distortion,” is mostly centered on an interview with a Hildebrandt family member who claims to have been physically and emotionally abused by Hildebrandt when the family member was a teenager. Chapter 4, titled “Honest, Reliable, Humble,” focuses on the legal aftermath of the crimes and other law violations that are discussed in the documetary.

“Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” begins with the same home video surveillance footage that almost every documentary about this scandal seems to use as the opening scene. On August 30, 2023, Franke’s then-12-year-old son rang the doorbell of a neighbor on a blistering hot day in the desert city of Ivins, Utah. The boy, who is Franke’s second-youngest child of six children, was emaciated, wearing only socks on his feet, and had duct tape tied over his wounded ankles. The boy asked to be taken to jail because he said he belonged there.

An unidentified elderly man and woman (presumably a couple living at the house) who answered the door are seen trying to help the boy, as the man of the house calls 911 to send an ambulance. His voice cracks with emotion when he sees the extent of the boy’s injuries. During this phone call, the boy says that he came from Jodi Hildebrandt house, and his mother is Ruby Franke. The Franke children who were under the age of 18 at the time this documentary was made have their first names withheld and their faces blurred out of the documentary, to protect their privacy.

Later, through Franke’s own journals, police body cam footage, witness statements and other evidence, it was revealed that Franke (who was born in 1982) and Hildebrandt (who was born in 1969) had been holding Franke’s two youngest children (the youngest being a 9-year-old girl at the time) captive in Hildebrandt’s sprawling compound in Ivins for several months. The children had been brainwashed to believe that they were evil and possessed by the devil and deserved any torture and punishment that they were getting from Franke and Hildebrandt. Body cam footage shows the police went to Hildebrandt’s home and found the youngest child emaciated in a locked room.

Hildebrandt and Franke were arrested that day and refused to explain in police questioning why the children were abused. Franke’s middle two children (daughters who were underage teenagers at the time), who had no signs of physical abuse, had been visiting at a friend of the family’s at the time the police searched Hildebrandt’s house. Franke’s two eldest children—daughter Shari and son Chad—were over the age of 18, estranged from their parents, and living in separate homes from their younger siblings when Ruby was arrested for abusing her two youngest children.

Ruby’s estranged husband Kevin (who was born in 1979) was cleared as a suspect because he hadn’t seen or communicated with his children for about a year, under the orders of Hildebrandt, who was the former couple’s therapist. Ruby and Kevin (who got married in 2000) had separated in June 2023, and he moved out of their house in Springville, Utah, in July 2023. Kevin filed for divorce from Ruby in November 2023.

In December 2023, Ruby and Hildebrandt pleaded guilty to aggravated child abuse of Ruby’s two youngest children. In February 2024, Ruby and Hildebrandt were each sentenced to four to 30 years in prison. In early 2025, Kevin and Ruby’s divorce became final, after Kevin won his long legal battle of wanting full custody of their underage children, who had been placed in foster care after Ruby’s arrest and conviction.

“Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” focuses more on Hildebrandt’s role than Ruby’s role in this child abuse. The 2025 documentary series “Devil in the Family: The Fall of Ruby Franke” (which has interviews with Kevin, Shari and Chad) takes an in-depth look at what led Ruby to become a convicted child abuser. “Devil in the Family: The Fall of Ruby Franke” gives details about how Ruby was an abusive mother long before she met Hildebrandt.

From 2015 to January 2022, Ruby documented the lives of herself, Kevin and their children on a YouTube channel that Ruby founded called 8 Passengers. At its peak, 8 Passengers had nearly 2.5 million subscribers and had six-figure sponsorship deals that totaled between $1 million to $2 million a year. Ruby presented her family as wholesome, loving and devout followers of the Mormon faith, also known as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Ruby shut down the 8 Passengers channel in January 2022, after Ruby was the subject of intense criticism and scrutiny over her harsh parenting tactics. In one video, she admitted that she made her teenage son Chad sleep on a bean bag for seven months as punishment. In another video, Ruby filmed herself telling her then 6-year-old daughter (her youngest child) that the daughter would be deprived of lunch that day because the daughter didn’t make her own lunch.

But behind the scenes, Ruby was an abusive tyrant, and Kevin was a passive enabler, according to Shari Franke’s 2025 memoir “The House of My Mother: A Daughter’s Quest for Freedom.” This book, which was published in January 2025, is not mentioned in “Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence,” which was released in September 2025. In the book and in Shari’s interview for “Devil in the Family: The Fall of Ruby Franke,” Shari says that Ruby would physically beat all of the children, who were too afraid to report this abuse because they feared they would not be believed.

Ruby shut down the 8 Passengers channel in January 2022, after Ruby was the subject of intense criticism and scrutiny over her harsh parenting tactics. In one video, Ruby admitted that she made her teenage son Chad sleep on a bean bag for seven months as punishment. In another video, Ruby filmed herself telling her then 6-year-old daughter (her youngest child) that the daughter would be deprived of lunch that day because the daughter didn’t make her own lunch.

Hildebrandt is a divorced mother who is estranged from her family, but she was able to amass a small fortune by marketing herself as a therapist/life coach for families, particularly families headed by married couples. Through a Mormon-centered counseling company she founded in 2007 called ConneXions, Hildebrandt became a cult-like leader who destroyed many marriages instead of saving them, according to people who’ve given interviews about Hildebrandt in this documentary and elsewhere. The former clients of Hildebrandt who are interviewed in the documentary are identified only by their first names in the documentary, even though some of them have been interviewed in other documentaries and news reports that identify them by their first and last names.

The former Hildenbrandt clients who are interviewed in the documentary tell the same stories that have already been told about Hildebrandt and ConneXions in other documentaries. Most of ConneXions’ married clients got divorced because Hildebrandt had a domineering counseling style that dictated the types of sexual intimacy her clients could have, which is typical tactic used by cult leaders. Many of her clients spent so much money on ConneXions and Hildebrandt’s “counseling services,” it ruined or damaged the clients’ finances.

Hildebrandt discouraged sexual intercourse for married couples, she preached that masturbation was deviant and sinful, and she taught that porn addiction is looking at porn at least once a year. According to several of her former clients, Hildebrandt often drove a wedge between husbands and wives, by convincing the wives to separate from or divorce their husbands because Hildebrandt said the husbands were addicted to porn.

The husbands were also convinced they were addicted to porn and agreed to the separations or divorces that Hildebrandt ordered. Hildebrandt almost always placed the blame on the husbands for ruining their own marriages. A former Hildebrandt client named Trey says in the documentary that he estimates that Hildebrandt was directly responsible for “hundreds” of divorces. Another former Hildebrandt client named Adam, who says his marriage was a casualty of her “counseling,” says that Hildebrandt taught this philosophy to the couples who got separated or divorced under her counseling: “The relationship had to end before it can be reborn.”

Michael, another former ConneXions client, says Hildebrandt ruined his marriage because he alleges that Hildebrandt convinced his wife that it was okay to physically abuse their daughter. Michael says he saw proof (physical injuries) of this abuse and reported the abuse to Child Protective Services. But he says CPS didn’t investigate, and his wife was able to convince a court to give her joint custody of their daughter. In their custody battle, Michael had been fighting to have his ex-wife lose custody of their daughter. He says he still fears and suspects that his ex-wife is abusing their child in ways that don’t show physical injuries.

Ruby and Kevin Franke separated under these circumstances. However, Hildebrandt took her relationship with Ruby far beyond what therapists are supposed to take with a client: In 2022, the year that Hildebrandt and Ruby started a social media platform business together called Moms of Truth, Hildebrandt moved in with Ruby and Kevin because Hildebrandt said she was afraid to live in her own home because she believed the devil was out to get her. It wasn’t long before Hildebrandt ordered Kevin and Ruby to sleep in separate bedrooms, and Hildebrandt and Ruby began sleeping in the same bed together.

There has been much speculation that Ruby and Hildebrandt were lovers during the time that Hildebrandt lived in the Franke home and continuing up until this toxic duo got arrested. Shari Franke says in her memoir that she believes that her mother Ruby and Hildebrandt were sexually involved with each other. In the book, Shari describes seeing the bedroom that Ruby and Hildebrandt shared as looking like a honeymoon suite, with candles and massage oils. Shari also remembers once seeing Hildebrandt coming out of the locked bedroom and getting the impression that Hildebrandt and just had sex with Ruby.

Hildebrandt’s love life has been shrouded in a lot of speculation and mystery that no documentary or news report has been able to expose, except for public information about Hildebrandt being married from 1993 to 1996. Hildebrandt’s ex-husband and her two adult children have not spoken publicly about her. Her children, who are now adults, reportedly were estranged from her long before her arrest. “Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” drops another hint that Hildebrandt is a closeted lesbian or queer woman in the third episode, when Jessi Hildebrandt, who is a child of Jodi’s brother, says that Jodi’s mother once told Jessi that Jodi had “special friendships” with girls when Jodi was a teenager.

Jodi was raised in a strict Mormon family as one of seven siblings. Her father was a pilot in the U.S. Air Force. Before moving to Utah, Jodi had lived in Arizona and in California. The Mormon religion teaches that homosexuality or queerness is a sin. In her counseling, Jodi also preaching against homosexuality and queerness. Former client Trey says he cut ties from ConneXions and Hildebrandt after he saw Hildebrandt verbal bully a man to come out as gay during a group therapy session.

Because most all of Jodi’s clients were also Mormon, she would have further incentive to hide her true sexuality if she’s a lesbian or queer women. If Jodi really is a closeted lesbian or queer women, it’s not unusual for closeted queer people to publicly be homophobic because they feel deep shame or self-hatred for their own homosexuality or queerness. it would be the same reason why Ruby Franke would want to hide or deny that she had a same-sex relationship Jodi, if this sexual relationship existed.

Documentaries have not given any information so far about what type of wife and mother Jodi was. However, Jessi Hildebrandt (whose current pronouns are “they/them”) has given several interviews, including in this documentary, about how Jodi physically and emotionally abused Jessi. In 2010, before Hildebrandt was estranged from her entire family, her married brother ordered his then-16-year-old child Jessi to live with Jodi because Jessi had come out as queer and had some rebellion issues, such as skipping school.

Jessi lived with Jodi for several months. In the documentary, Jessi says Jodi’s abuse included Jessi being locked in rooms for up to 12 hours a day; Jessi’s mouth being duct taped; Jessi being forbidden to talk to other people without Jodi’s permission; Jessi not being allowed to read or use the Internet; and Jessi getting frequent beatings from Jodi. Jessi says that Jessi reported this abuse to police, but nothing happened because Jessi had no proof, and Jodi was considered an upstanding member of the community.

Jessi says that Jodi tried to convince Jessi that Jessi was possessed by the devil. In the documentary, Jessi says about Jodi: “She wanted to make my life so miserable, it would force the sin out of me.” Jessi says that Jodi punished Jessi for sexually experimenting with girls. As for Jodi’s being arrested and convicted of abusing the Franke kids, Jessi comments: “It didn’t surprise me.”

One of the biggest failings of other documentaries about the Hildebrandt/Franke child abuse scandal is how they ignore or barely mention the Mormon Church’s role in continuining to refer clients to Jodi, even after there was evidence that she wasn’t a good therapist. The high divorce rate among her clients after they were “counseled” by her should’ve been a big red flag, especially in a religion where divorce is a big stigma. “Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” addresses the Mormon Church’s enabling of Jodi, but the documentary doesn’t uncover a lot of groundbreaking information.

The documentary mentions that Hildebrandt’s therapist license was suspended for about 18 months, beginning in 2012, because she breached the confidentiality of a client by telling private information about him to a therapy group. She was still able to grow the business because she continued to get client referrals from Mormon church officials, who knew about her suspended license. “Ruby & Jodi: A Cult of Sin and Influence” doesn’t name any Mormon church officials, but ConneXions president Pam Bodtcher (a close friend of Jodi’s) is mentioned multiple times as one of the worst enablers.

Bodtcher did not resonded to requests to be interviewed for the documentary, but Michael (the former ConneXions client who says his ex-wife abused their daughter) is currently suing Ruby Franke, Jodi Hildebrandt and ConneXions for racketeering. Michael claims that Bodtcher knew about people being abused under Jodi’s direction, but Bodtcher did nothing to stop it. As of this writing, the lawsuit is still pending.

Eric Clarke, attorney for Utah’s Washington County, was a prosecutor in the Hildebrandt/Franker case, says in the documentary that there isn’t enough evidence to bring criminal charges against Bodtcher. He says that Jodi abused religion to convince others to commit evil acts. Clarke comments on the case that resulted in Ruby and Jodi becoming convicted child abusers: “We had evidence Ruby was inflicting the abuse, but we also had evidence that Jodi was causing it.”

Former client Adam is the person whose confidentiality was breached by Jodi in the case that got her license suspended for 18 months, beginning in 2012. In the documentary, Adam says that the private information that Jodi revealed about him to a therapy group was that Adam had been sexually abused as a child. Adam says that his ex-wife used this information in a custody battle and distributed this information to Brigham Young University (where he worked at the time) and to the Mormon Church.

As a result, Adam got fired from his job at Brigham Young University, which settled a wrongful termination dispute with Adam over his dismissal from the job. Adam’s parents Paul and Deborah, whose last names are also not mentioned in the documentary, back up Adam’s story. Even though Jodi’s therapist license was suspended for 18 months, she still operated ConneXions by presenting herself as a life coach, not a licensed therapist, and her business grew because of client referrals that she was still getting from the Mormon Church.

Other people interviewed in the documentary are KSL-TV Salt Lake City reporter Shelby Lofton; Mormon therapist Dr. Julie Hanks; psychologist Dr. John Dehlin, who describes himself as a former Mormon; sex therapist Natasha Helfer, who describes herself as a former Mormon; social media personalities John Mathias and Lauren Mathias of Hidden True Crime; and a former ConneXions client named Janae. Some of these interviewees have been in other documentaries and news reports about the Hildebrandt/Franke child abuse case.

“Ruby & Jodi: Cult of Sin and Influence” is a fairly good overview of how Jodi used mind control and manipulation to get people to do her bidding. The documentary falls short at being a more balanced look at showing that Ruby had child abuse accusations against her long before Ruby got involved with Jodi. More information was also needed about who in the Mormon Church could have enabled Jodi’s misdeeds as a therapist/life coach. But if you want to see a documentary where several people who knew Jodi before her imprisonment have things to say about her, then “Ruby & Jodi: Cult of Sin and Influence” fulfills that purpose.

Investigation Discovery premiered “Ruby & Jodi: Cult of Sin and Influence” on September 1, 2025.

Review: ‘Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story,’ starring Ethan Prete, Jessi Hildebrandt, Eric Clarke, Jessica Bate, Valerie Jackson, Natasha Helfer and Kathy Kinghorn

December 31, 2025

by Carla Hay

Jodi Hildebrandt’s 2023 arrest mug shot in “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” (Photo courtesy of Netflix)

“Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story”

Directed by Skye Borgman

Culture Representation: The documentary film “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” features an all-white group of people talking about the child-abuse scandal involving former YouTube family influencer Ruby Franke and her business partner Jodi Hildebrant, who are both from Utah.

Culture Clash: In December 2023, Franke and Hildebrandt were both convicted of felony child abuse for beating, torturing, starving, and holding captive Franke’s two youngest children earlier that year.

Culture Audience: “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” will appeal primarily to people who are interested in watching true crime documentaries about child abusers who are punished for their crimes and how cult-like leaders can cause damage.

Jessica Bate in “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” (Photo courtesy of Netflix)

“Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” is a very lazy and sloppily edited documentary that re-uses the same footage and recycles the same information that’s in other documentaries about the Jodi Hildebrandt/Ruby Franke child abuse scandal. This documentary’s timeline jumps all over the place. And there are some weird editing choices. For example, toward the end of the documentary, a closeup of an unidentified person’s eye is shown multiple times, for no apparent reason.

Directed by Skye Borgman, “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” should have uncovered more information about Hildebrandt’s murky personal background. Instead, the documentary repeats basic information that is already publicly known: Hildebrandt (who was born in 1969) is a divorced mother who is estranged from her family, but she was able to amass a small fortune by marketing herself as a therapist/life coach for families, particularly families headed by married couples. Through a Mormon-centered counseling company she founded called ConneXions, Hildebrandt (who lived in Ivins, Utah) became a cult-like leader who destroyed many marriages instead of saving them, according to people who’ve given interviews about Hildebrandt in this documentary and elsewhere.

Hildebrandt and people from the Franke family are not interviewed in this documentary, although the documentary includes archival footage (mostly police body cam footage and social media footage) that have been also used in several other documentaries about this scandal. The documentary also includes widely reported phone calls that Hildebrandt and Franke made while incarcerated. In these phone calls, Hildebrandt and Franke express no remorse for their crimes and describe themselves as persecuted victims. In one of the phone calls, Hildebrandt blames one of her victims for inflicting torture wounds on himself.

One of the marriages that was negatively affected by Hildebrandt’s interference was the marriage of Ruby Franke and Kevin Franke, who got married in 2000, when Ruby was 18, and Kevin was 21. Ruby and Kevin had six children together (four daughters and two sons) and lived in Springville, Utah. The documentary does not include the first names and faces of the four children who were still under the age of 18 at the time this documentary was released. Shari Franke and Chad Franke—the two eldest children of Ruby and Kevin—were over the age of 18, estranged from Ruby and Kevin, and living in separate homes from their younger siblings when Ruby was arrested for abusing her two youngest children.

Hildebrandt’s crime story is so intertwined with Ruby’s, any documentary about Hildebrandt inevitably has to have a lot of information about Ruby. From 2015 to January 2022, Ruby documented the lives of herself, Kevin and their children on a YouTube channel that Ruby founded called 8 Passengers. At its peak, 8 Passengers had nearly 2.5 million subscribers and had six-figure sponsorship deals that totaled between $1 million to $2 million a year. Ruby presented her family as wholesome, loving and devout followers of the Mormon faith, also known as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

But behind the scenes, Ruby was an abusive tyrant, and Kevin was a passive enabler, according to Shari Franke’s 2025 memoir “The House of My Mother: A Daughter’s Quest for Freedom” and the 2025 documentary series “Devil in the Family: The Fall of Ruby Franke,” which has exclusive interviews with Shari, Chad and Kevin. Ruby shut down the 8 Passengers channel in January 2022, after Ruby was the subject of intense criticism and scrutiny over her harsh parenting tactics. In one video, she admitted that she made her teenage son Chad sleep on a bean bag for seven months as punishment. In another video, Ruby filmed herself telling her then 6-year-old daughter (her youngest child) that the daughter would be deprived of lunch that day because the daughter didn’t make her own lunch.

After the demise of the 8 Passengers channel, Ruby went into business with Hildebrandt, a divorced mother whose two adult children are estranged from her. Together, Ruby and Hildebrandt started a social media platform called Moms of Truth, which promoted and advocated for strict parenting discipline that many people would describe as abusive techniques. Ruby was also actively involved in ConneXions.

The marriage of Ruby and Kevin began to fall apart soon after Ruby became more closely involved with Hildebrant in 2022. At one point, Hildebrandt moved in with Ruby and Kevin because Hildebrandt said she didn’t feel safe in her own house because Hildebrandt claimed the devil was out to get her. Hildebrandt began dictating many aspects of the couple’s life, such as ordering Kevin to sleep in a separate bedroom, while Hildebrandt began sleeping in the same bed as Ruby.

“Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” drops hints that Hildebrandt is a closeted lesbian or queer woman who had a sexual affair with Ruby, even though Hildebrandt’s teachings condemned homosexuality or queer sexuality. The documentary never mentions crucial details confirming that this sexual affair was a probable reality, which would explain why Ruby and Hildebrandt seemed to be obsessed with each other. Before their arrest on August 30, 2023, Ruby and Hildebrandt were acting like live-in partners who were co-parenting Ruby’s underage kids.

The documentary never mentions Shari Franke’s memoir, in which Shari describes an incident before Ruby banned Shari from visiting the family at the Springville house. Shari remembers seeing Hildebrandt coming out of the locked bedroom that Hildebrandt shared with Ruby and having the distinct impression that Hildebrandt and Ruby were lovers, because the bedroom was decorated like a honeymoon suite, with lit candles and massage oils. In the book, Shari describes Hildebrandt looking happy and glowing, as if she just had sex, but Hildebrandt didn’t discuss what she and Ruby were doing behind closed doors.

By June 2022, Ruby and Kevin separated, at the urging of Hildebrandt. By July 2022, Kevin had moved out of the Springville house—a change to the family that was also dictated by Hildebrandt, who had convinced Kevin that he was addicted to pornography and needed to stay away from Ruby and their children. Kevin would have no contact and would not see the children until after the August 2023 arrest of Ruby and Hildebrandt. He didn’t find out until after the arrest how badly his two youngest children had been abused.

“Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” begins with the same home video surveillance footage that almost every documentary about this scandal seems to use as the opening scene. On August 30, 2023, Franke’s then-12-year-old son rang the doorbell of a neighbor on a blistering hot day in the desert city of Ivins. The boy, who is Franke’s second-youngest child of six children, was emaciated, wearing only socks on his feet, and had duct tape tied over his wounded ankles. The boy asked to be taken to jail because he said he belonged there.

An unidentified elderly man and woman (who are presumably a couple living at the house) who answered the door are seen trying to help the boy, as the man of the house calls 911 to send an ambulance. His voice cracks with emotion when he sees the extent of the boy’s injuries. During this phone call, the boy says that he came from Jodi Hildebrandt’s house and his mother is Ruby Franke. 

Later, through Franke’s own journals, police body cam footage, witness statements and other evidence, it was revealed that Franke and Hildebrandt had been holding Franke’s two youngest children (the youngest being a 9-year-old girl at the time) captive in Hildebrandt’s sprawling compound in Ivins for several months. The children had been brainwashed to believe that they were evil and possessed by the devil and deserved any torture and punishment that they were getting from Franke and Hildebrandt. Body cam footage shows the police went to Hildebrandt’s home and found the youngest child emaciated in a locked room.

Hildebrandt and Franke were arrested that day and refused to explain in police questioning why the children were abused. Franke’s middle two children (daughters who were underage teenagers at the time) had been visiting at a friend of the family’s at the time the police searched Hildebrandt’s house. Kevin filed for divorce from Ruby in November 2023. In December 2023, Ruby and Hildebrandt pleaded guilty to aggravated child abuse of Ruby’s two youngest children. In February 2024, Ruby and Hildebrandt were each sentenced to four to 30 years in prison.

In March 2025, Kevin and Ruby’s divorce became final, after Kevin won his long legal battle of wanting full custody of their underage children, who had been placed in foster care after Ruby’s arrest and conviction. This documentary was completed before the news that Kevin Franke married his second wife Becca Bevan in November 2025. Social media postings didn’t make the wedding public until December 2025. The couple got engaged in September 2025. Social media postings of the wedding indicate that Kevin’s eldest children Shari and Chad attended the wedding and approve of this marriage.

“Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” goes back and forth between showing the police body cam footage of this investigation and going into Hildebrandt’s past. This non-chronological timeline might be a little confusing for some viewers who aren’t familiar with this true crime case. It certainly makes “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” look a bit rambling and disjointed.

On the law enforcement side, “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” has interviews with two people who’ve already been in other documentaries about the Franke/Hildebrandt child abuse case: Jessica Bate of the Santa Clara-Ivins Police Department was one of the first police detectives on the scene of the search of Hildebrandt’s house where the youngest Franke child was found. Bate also interviewed Ruby and Hildebrandt after their arrests. Eric Clarke, attorney for Utah’s Washington County, is also interviewed.

Although Bate and Clarke give emotionally effective interviews, they don’t really reveal anything new that they already haven’t talked about in other documentary interviews. Bate comments, “I’d never seen abuse on this level, in a case I’d work on before … It’s a crazy story: An individual influencing other others on how to be a good mom is detained for being a bad mom.” Clarke says in his interview: “But a therapist leading someone to religiously believe that they need to torture their children, I think that’s the more fascinating story.”

If it’s a fascinating story, it’s been told in much better documentaries than “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story,” which limits all the other interviews to people who all have reasons to say bad things about Hildebrandt. The documentary doesn’t adequately address the systemic failures that led to Hildebrandt’s abuse of power and why her disturbing history of child abuse was kept a secret until after her arrest.

Hildebrandt founded ConneXions in 2007. The documentary mentions that Hildebrandt’s therapist license was suspended for about 18 months, beginning in 2012, because she breached the confidentiality of a client by telling private information about him to a therapy group. She was still able to grow the business because she presented herself as a life coach (not as a licensed therapist) and continued to get client referrals from Mormon church officials, who knew about her suspended license. However, “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” makes no mention of trying to interview any of these Mormon church officials about why they enabled Hildebrandt and ignored complaints from her other Mormon clients.

Ethan Prete, a former ConneXions client, is given the most screen time for the documentary’s interviews, to the point where the documentary tells a lot more about his personal life than Hildebrandt’s personal life. Prete says he’s one of many people whose marriages were destroyed by Hildebrandt, who preached in her “counseling” that masturbation was a “sinful” and “deviant,” and looking at porn at least once a year equals porn addiction.

Another former ConneXions client named Valerie Jackson is interviewed. She tells a similar story to Prete’s about going to Hildebrandt for help in her troubled marriage and seeing how Hildebrandt would manipulate wives to turn against their husbands, which would lead to divorce and other marital breakups. At the time Jackson and her then-husband got involved with ConneXions in 2007, the couple had been married for three years. Jackson says Hildebrandt persuaded her married clients to stop having sex with their respective spouses: “She kept telling us, ‘You don’t need sex.'”

Jackson got divorced about a year after she and her then-husband cut ties with ConneXions. Jackson doesn’t completely blame Hildebrandt for Jackson’s divorce, but she says that Hildebrandt had “a hand” in the demise of Jackson’s marriage. Jackson describes Hildebrandt as a master manipulator who convinced many of her clients that Hildebrandt was the only person who could fix their problems through Hildebrandt’s “counseling.”

Jackson says Hildebrandt did damage to more than her personal life. She says that Hildebrandt wrecked Jackson’s finances. Jackson claims that she and her then-husband maxed out all their credit cards to pay for Hildebrandt’s services through ConneXions and were spending more on ConneXions than on their monthly mortgage payments. In total, Jackson estimates that she and her then-husband spent about $50,000 on ConneXions.

There’s no doubt that Hildebrandt is a horrible person, but there are times when some of the documentary’s bitter people who say Hildebrandt ruined their lives come across as a little whiny by not taking some responsibility for their own choices. Some of these people might feel they were conned out of their money or had their marriages ruined by Hildebrandt, but it was still their choice to give over that type of control to Hildebrandt, who was dictating to other people how to have a happy and healthy personal life, when Hildebrandt was not practicing what she was preaching.

And this is where “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” falls very short: All the documentary’s information about Hildebrandt’s personal life has already been reported elsewhere. Almost nothing is told about what type of wife and mother Hildebrandt was, which is an unacceptable lack of investigation for a documentary that’s supposed to be a biography about a convicted child abuser who built a lucrative business from family counseling before being arrested for child abuse.

The documentary mentions basic facts about Hildebrandt: She was born in Tucson, Arizona, and was one of seven children. He father (whose name is not mentioned in the documentary) was an U.S. Air Force Pilot. Her mother is not mentioned at all. As a teenager, Hildebrandt exceled in academics and basketball. In her late teens or early 20s, Hildebrandt became a Mormon missionary and did very well in this job because she had exceptional persuasion skills.

One of the people interviewed in the documentary is Laura Howells Leavitt, who lived and worked with Hildebrandt during their Mormon missionary stint, at a time in the 1990s when female missionaries were extremely rare. Howells Leavitt, who describes Hildebrandt as very charismatic and intelligent, says that she felt inadequate compared to Hildebrandt when they were companion missionaries: “Even though there were three of us [living together as missionaries], Jodi felt like she was the one who was making a difference.”

The documentary mentions that Hildebrandt got married in 1993 and had two children with her then-husband. (The names of her ex-husband and children are not mentioned in the documentary.) The marriage ended in divorce in 1996. No one in the documentary gives the reason for the divorce. The documentary also has no information on how long Hildebrandt has been estranged from her children, who are now adults.

Hildebrandt’s former client Jackson says that Hildebrant once mentioned during a group therapy session that Hildebrandt’s family members despised Hildebrandt and didn’t want to be around her. At the time, Jackson thought it was strange that Hildebrandt would make this confession to clients when Hildebrandt had marketed herself as an expert in happy and healthy family relationships. In hindsight, Jackson understands this confession for being a crack in Hildebrandt’s carefully crafted façade and a glimpse into the troubled personal life of Hildebrandt.

But what about that personal life? Don’t expect this documentary to have any information about who were Hildebrandt’s friends and lovers after her divorce. There are no details about whom Hildebrandt was close to, except for the widely known facts about her close relationship with Ruby.

In 2010, before Hildebrandt was estranged from her entire family, her married brother ordered his then-16-year-old child Jessi Hildebrandt (whose current pronouns are “they/them”) to live with Jodi because Jessi had come out as queer and had some rebellion issues, such as skipping school. Jessi, who is seen in a video conference call interview in the documentary, has given multiple interviews in other documentaries and news reports where Jessi talks about the abuse that Jodi inflicted on Jessi in the several months that Jessi lived with Jodi.

This abuse included Jessi being locked in rooms, being forced to sleep in the snow, and getting frequent beatings from Jodi. Jessi says that Jessi reported this abuse to police, but nothing happened because Jessi had no proof, and Jodi was considered an upstanding member of the community. Jessi says that Jodi tried to convince Jessi that Jessi was possessed by the devil.

In the documentary, Jessi says about Jodi: “She wanted to make my life so uncomfortable that it would force the sin out of me. I would confess to things I didn’t do as a way of trying to get the abuse to stop.” Jessi describes Jodi as being very fixated on equating homosexuality with sin and deviancy.

Christi Judd, who was a neighbor of Jodi’s at the time Jessi lived with Jodi, remembers how Jessi canceled plans to spend friend time with Judd’s son, who is about the same age as Jessi. Judd says that Jessi seemed to be a recluse who disappeared into the house. Judd gets tearful when she thinks about how she now knows that Jessi was an abused captive, but Judd didn’t know and didn’t suspect it at the time because Jodi seemed to be so “normal.”

The only clue that the documentary offers about why Jodi has major hangups about sexuality is by mentioning something that Jodi wrote in her self-help book “You Are Not Not Enough,” which she self-published in 2010. Kathy Klinghorn, a clinical social worker who worked with Jodi for a period of time that the documentary does not detail, reads aloud an except from the book where Jodi says that when Jodi was 7 years old, unnamed teenage boys began sexually abusing her. That’s all the documentary mentions about this alleged abuse.

Natasha Helfer, a former Mormon who is a licensed therapist, is also interviewed. Helfer has been interviewed in other documentaries and news reports about the Hildebrandt/Franke child abuse scandal. Helfer’s only connection to Hildebrandt is that Helfer says many of Helfer’s clients are former clients of Hildebrandt. Helfer has nothing new to add that she hasn’t already talked about before in interviews that she did elsewhere.

“Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” looks like a hastily assembled documentary that cobbles together a lot of widely used archival footage with interviews that reveal no new information. There are decades of Hildebrandt’s personal life that are not investigated and remain a mystery in this slipshod documentary. Instead, “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” has the usual clichés of a “bandwagon jumping” true crime documentary: tacky ominous music, a limited range of interviews, and a jumbled narrative that copies information that other documentaries have already covered.

Netflix premiered “Evil Influencer: The Jodi Hildebrandt Story” on December 30, 2025.

Review: ‘Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal,’ starring Lance Haight, Trey Warner, Kyle Dunphey, Maryhan Munt, Brian Buckmire and Kalhan Rosenblatt

December 30, 2025

by Carla Hay

An 2010s archival photo of Ruby Franke and Kevin Franke in “Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” (Photo courtesy of Channel 5 Broadcasting)

“Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal”

Directed by Ali Naushahi and Olivia Witt

Culture Representation: The documentary film “Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” features a predominantly white group of people (with one African American) talking about the child-abuse scandal involving former YouTube family influencer Ruby Franke and her business partner Jodi Hildebrant, who are both from Utah.

Culture Clash: In December 2023, Franke and Hildebrandt were both convicted of felony child abuse for beating, torturing, starving, and holding captive Franke’s two youngest children earlier that year.

Culture Audience: “Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” will appeal primarily to people who are interested in watching true crime documentaries about child abusers who are punished for their crimes and how family vlogging can have a dark side.

Lance Haight in “Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” (Photo courtesy of Channel 5 Broadcasting)

“Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” is the first documentary film about the scandal of the first famous social media family influencer who became a convicted child abuser. It’s a fairly straightforward documentary that has a well-rounded mix of interviews of law enforcement, journalists, and people who knew Ruby Franke and Jodi Hildebrandt before Franke and Hildebrandt went to prison for child abuse. More facts have since emerged since this documentary premiered on television in 2024, but this documentary has a fairly comprehensive summary of the facts, along with commentary from people who were involved with the case or closely followed the case.

Directed by Ali Naushahi and Olivia Witt, “Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” is a British TV production that was renamed “Abused by Mom: The Ruby Franke Scandal” for American television. The documentary is narrated by actress Jane Perry, who gives voiceover narration in an appropriately serious tone. The documentary follows a traditional format of mixing archival footage with footage that was filmed exclusively for the documentary.

“Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” begins by showing the now-notorious home video surveillance footage from August 30, 2023, when Franke’s then-12-year-old son rang the doorbell of a neighbor on a blistering hot day in the desert city of Ivins, Utah. (All of the Franke children who were still under the age of 18 when this documentary was released do not have their names mentioned in the documentary.) The boy, who is Franke’s second-youngest child of six children, was emaciated, wearing only socks on his feet, and had duct tape tied over his wounded ankles. The boy asked to be taken to jail because he said he belonged there.

The elderly couple (whose names are also not revealed) who answered the door are seen trying to help the boy, as the man of the house calls 911 to send an ambulance. His voice cracks with emotion when he sees the extent of the boy’s injuries. During this phone call, the boy says that he came from Jodi Hildebrandt’s house and his mother is Ruby Franke. At the time, Franke was a social media influencer whose specialty was parenting advice, while Hildebrandt was therapist/life coach who was Franke’s business partner.

Later, through Franke’s own journals, police body cam footage, witness statements and other evidence, it was revealed that Franke (who was born in 1982) and her business partner Hildebrandt (who was born in 1969) had been holding Franke’s two youngest children (the youngest being a 9-year-old girl at the time) captive in Hildebrandt’s sprawling compound in Ivins for several months. The children had been brainwashed to believe that they were evil and possessed by the devil and deserved any torture and punishment that they were getting from Franke and Hildebrandt.

Body cam footage shows the police went to Hildebrandt’s home and found the youngest child emaciated in a locked room. Hildebrandt and Franke were arrested that day and refused to explain in police questioning why the children were abused. Franke’s middle two children (daughters who were underage teenagers at the time) had been visiting at a friend of the family’s at the time the police searched Hildebrandt’s house. Franke’s two eldest children (daughter Shari and son Chad), who were over 18 and estranged from their parents, were living in separate residences.

At the time of this abuse, Ruby Franke and her husband Kevin (who had been married since 2000) were separated, and he had been told to stay away from his wife and kids. This separation had been ordered by Hildebrandt, who had been the former couple’s therapist/life coach under a business that Hildebrandt founded called ConneXions. Hildebrandt had accused Kevin (who was born in 1979) of being addicted to porn because he admitted that he looked at porn. Hildebrandt had also moved into the Franke household for a while, but after the separation, Ruby began to live with Hildebrandt.

Body cam footage shows Kevin being questioned by police on the day that his two youngest children had been found emaciated and abused. He denied knowing anything about his kids being in danger and seemed shocked by what police had found at Hildebrandt’s house. Because Kevin had not been in any contact with and had not seen his children for about a year, he was ruled out as a suspect.

Kevin filed for divorce from Ruby in November 2023. In December 2023, Ruby and Hildebrandt pleaded guilty to aggravated child abuse of Ruby’s two youngest children. In February 2024, Ruby and Hildebrandt were each sentenced to four to 30 years in prison. In early 2025, Kevin and Ruby’s divorce became final, after Kevin won his long legal battle of wanting full custody of their underage children, who had been placed in foster care after Ruby’s arrest and conviction.

Ruby (who lived in Springville, Utah) was a controversial social media influencer, who in 2015, launched a successful family vlog called 8 Passengers, starring herself, Kevin and their six children. At its peak, 8 Passengers had nearly 2.5 million subscribers and had six-figure sponsorship deals that totaled between $1 million to $2 million a year. Ruby presented her family as wholesome, loving and devout followers of the Mormon faith, also known as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Hildebrandt, who is also Mormon, marketed Hildebrandt’s therapist counseling sessions almost exclusively to Mormon clients.

By January 2022, 8 Passengers went defunct, after Ruby was the subject of intense criticism and scrutiny over her harsh parenting tactics. In one video, she admitted that she made her teenage son Chad sleep on a bean bag for seven months as punishment. In another video, Ruby filmed herself telling her then 6-year-old daughter (her youngest child) that the daughter would be deprived of lunch that day because the daughter didn’t make her own lunch.

After the demise of the 8 Passengers channel, Ruby went into business with Hildebrandt, a divorced mother whose two adult children are estranged from her. Together, Ruby and Hildebrandt started a social media platform called Moms of Truth, which promoted and advocated for strict parenting discipline that many people would describe as abusive techniques. Ruby was also actively involved in ConneXions, whose main business was counseling married Mormon couples.

A disturbingly high percentage of these couples got divorced because of Jodi’s domineering style of “counseling,” says Trey Warner, a former ConneXions client who is interviewed in the documentary. Warner says he was one of a minority of people who didn’t go to ConneXions for marriage counseling, but Warner says he saw many couples’ marriages ruined because Hildebrandt manipulated the wives to divorce their husbands. The documentary mentions that Hildebrandt’s therapist license was suspended in the early 2010s because she breached the confidentiality of a client by telling private information about him to a therapy group.

An unnamed woman, whose face is not shown in the documentary, describes herself in the documentary as a friend of the Franke family. She blames Hildebrandt for breaking up the marriage of Ruby and Kevin. The couple had separated in June 2022. Kevin moved out of the family home in July 2022. In interviews with police, Kevin said Hildebrandt made him feel guilty for looking at porn and convinced Kevin that he had a porn addiction, which Hildebrandt said required Kevin to stay away from Ruby and their children.

By September 2022, neighbors and eldest child Shari were calling police to report that the four youngest Franke children (all under the age of 18 at the time) were spending hours and sometimes days alone in the Springville house. Nothing came of these reports because every time police showed up at the house to check on the kids, no one answered the door. Without a warrant or any witnessed abuse of the children, the police had no choice but to walk away. It has since been revealed in news reports, Shari Franke’s 2025 memoir “The House of My Mother: A Daughter’s Quest for Freedom,” and in the 2025 documentary series “Devil in the Family: The Fall of Ruby Franke” that before Ruby and Kevin separated, they had ordered Shari and Chad to stay away from the house and threatened to have Shari and Chad arrested for trespassing if Shari and Chad went to the house. By early 2023, the underage Franke children were being homeschooled.

Much of “Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” tells this tragic story through archival footage that shows how the image that Ruby presented on camera was very different from who she was in real life. Springville Police Department chief Lance Height says in the documentary that the Franke case is the worst case of child abuse he’s ever seen. Other people interviewed in the documentary are Utah News Dispatch reporter Kyle Dunphey; NBC News Internet culture reporter Kalhan Rosenblatt; psychologist/parenting expert Maryhan Munt; [Cult]ure Shock YouTube channel founder Kendra Lee Bryann; The Mirror U.S. reporter Fiona Leishma; and ABC News legal contributor/attorney Brian Buckmire. “Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” is a no-frills documentary that avoids tabloid-like sensationalism and is an informative and cautionary tale that shows warning signs to look out for if people suspect child abuse.

Channel 5 (in the United Kingdom) premiered “Abused by Mum: The Ruby Franke Scandal” on May 5, 2024. Peacock premiered the movie (retitled to “Abused by Mom: The Ruby Franke Scandal”) on August 13, 2024.

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